“Where’s Your Dog?” & Other Questions I’m Tired of Answering
You know that question. The one that seems to tumble out of people’s mouths whenever they see a blind person: “Where’s your dog?”
It’s a question that often comes with an undercurrent of surprise, even pity. People seem to assume that every blind person must have a guide dog.
But the truth is, it’s not that simple.
Here are a few reasons why I might not have my guide dog with me:
1. Injury:
Let’s be honest, accidents happen. If I’ve injured my arm, leg, or shoulder, working with my dog can be dangerous for both of us. A recent cortisone shot in my Achilles tendon left me with a significant limp, making it difficult to maintain balance while guiding my dog.
2. Weather Extremes:
Extreme weather conditions can be challenging for both humans and dogs. I’ve set personal limits: below -25°C, my dog gets to decide if he wants to brave the cold. At -30°C or colder, he stays home. Similarly, in the summer, I let him decide above 25°C and keep him home above 30°C.
3. Illness:
Just like us, dogs get sick! If my dog is experiencing vomiting or diarrhea, he needs a day to rest and recover.
4. Not Everyone Has a Guide Dog:
This is a big one!
- Choice: Many blind people choose not to work with a guide dog.
- Circumstances: Guide dog training is a significant commitment. It may not be feasible for everyone due to financial limitations, living situations, or personal preferences.
- Independence: Some blind people prefer to navigate independently using other assistive devices like canes or long canes.
Please, Respect Our Choices
It’s important to remember that blindness is a diverse experience. Each person navigates the world differently.
Ultimately, it’s about respecting our independence and our right to choose how we live our lives.
Disclaimer: This blog post reflects the author’s personal experiences and opinions.
I hope this helps! Let me know if you have any other questions.
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