Last night at a local WHL game, I witnessed a disturbing chant: “I’m Blind, I’m Deaf, I Wanna Be A Ref.” This was sung by a group of young children after a goal was overturned, expressing their frustration with the referee’s decision.
While it may seem like harmless venting, this chant is deeply problematic. It promotes ableism, the discrimination and prejudice against people with disabilities.
What is the harm?
This chant trivializes and mocks people with disabilities. It implies that blindness and deafness are undesirable or laughable conditions. This type of language perpetuates harmful stereotypes and contributes to a culture of exclusion and intolerance.
Why is this different?
We as a society are quick to condemn homophobic, transphobic, or racist language. Yet, ableism often goes unchecked. Why is it acceptable to mock people with disabilities but not other marginalized groups?
Where do we go from here?
It’s time for a change. Parents, please teach your children about respect and inclusivity. Explain to them that making fun of people with disabilities is hurtful and unacceptable. Children, learn to express your emotions in a respectful and appropriate manner.
Let’s create a society where everyone feels valued and respected, regardless of their abilities.
Unapologetically Blind 